tag...i'm it too???

so how this works, according to what crystal did.....

tabitha @ fresh mommy (tabithablue.blogspot.com) tagged me so i'm supposed to post a snippet from the closest book to me. since i'm sitting at the computer desk, that happens to be "Jenny Craig's Little Survival Guide." not a bad little book to have around by the way....chuck full of great tips if you're planning to start dieting, AS AM I, @ the first of the year (i'm feeling a little de javu here......LOL).

here's a good one......
Don't equate willpower with deprivation. Instead think of willpower as a positive thing--as in "by managing my weight, I will live a healthier lifestyle...and I will have more energy for family activities."

how's that???

small is in the mind of the beholder....

small accomplishments happen every day for children and we as parents get the

privledge of observing them....but for a parent of a special needs child, there's

NO SUCH THING as a SMALL accomplishment!!!!

hence these photos....see a little man decorating his Christmas tree, but

independently stops to say "CHEESE", who wasn't even speaking six short months

ago! see a little boy in a santa hat patiently posing for photos who wouldn't look

into a camera for years and didn't like having his picture taken...or a little boy who's

favorite "rudolph the red-nosed reindeer" train passes by unblocked by fences

once put up in front of them because he now has the patience and maturity to just

sit and watch it without breaking it!

yes people, small does not begin to describe these every day occurances, call

them miracles if you would because they are! the blessed Christmas season has

begun........

suck it up before you lose the choice...

i've been waiting to write this until the mood hit me....i decided on the eve of GIVING THANKS that it did.....

i lost a member of my family last week. for what would have "normally" been a traumatic experience, given their relationship to me and it's implied closeness, it was actually rather ambivilent. the reason why, so sadly, was i had only seen this person once in over thirty years. they removed themselves from my life when i was still a child, for no apparent reason to me and without explanation. many years of hurt and wonder followed.....

a few years back, GOD himself interveined and reconnected me to this person through a freakish, but clearly annointed circumstance. i was happy to say that with God in me i just said, "no hard feelings, let's just be thankful he reconnected us again and move on from here." sadly once again, through reasons of pride and unacceptance, they once again rejected me, and this time my son as well. fortunately, with God in me again, i just prayed for this person and went on with my life. there was nothing more i could do......

i have other people in my life as we speak that are refusing to speak with/break bread with other members of my family for the most insignifigant reasons. and i find myself looking at them and thinking, "are you gonna wait til their funeral to see them again?" but this is in reality the dilemma they face if they simply refuse God's grace in themselves and give that back to those people.

we hear it ALL THE TIME but that's because it's TRUE! life is short and on our death beds these silly little walls between us and others won't amount to a hill of beans....but our regreat for lost opportunities may be the size of a mountain!!!

i urge you tomorrow to take a moment to REALLY, REALLY, REALLY look for the good in each and every person you spend time with and more importantly, RELEASE any muck that stands between you and just giving them a hug!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE AND GOD BLESS YOU!

people respect your convictions....

just a simple observation today....

back to government class again, lol. seems this class has at the very least evoked a lot of thought process with me...

today we were assigned two group projects. the first was to read a newspaper article on a bill passing some time back. then read several articles to be labeled with our notes from the past week. the problem was the first assignment...

this was an article on "partial-birth" abortion and NOT one i would normally care to read. i know, i know...you can't just pretend things don't exist and hide your head, but i tend to get very emotional and sad when i'm innendated with too much yuk! part way through the article i got nauseous reading the details of the "how." so i made the decision to opt out of the assignment and loose a few points. i did do the second one in case you're wondering.

to my surprise, everyone, including the teacher himself, was not only respectful, but kind and respectful. goes to show, you can still stand up for what you believe in and have those that might disagree still RESPECT you for doing it. amen!

limited or limitless....24/7

so having been a big fan for many years of 'American Idol,'

i am always thrilled to see people who've graced their stage,

like Chris Sly or Mendesa,

head in the direction of Christian music recording!

so i was listening to Chris' new song,

one of my favs right now,

and thought about the lyric....

"empty me of me, so i can be filled with you."

so it got me thinkin....

do you have to take something out of yourself

in order to add another component of God???

i concluded...yes and no....

in our flesh, we are extremely limited,

as if confined to a small box or something,

unable to escape.

but in our spirit, the spirit of God,

we are LIMITLESS!

there's ALWAYS room for more of God

and we don't have to lose something

in order to get it, Jesus paid that cost already.

24/7

i've always thought, based on the word,

that we chose each day to "walk in love."

my mistake was thinking it was a daily thing you

said to yourself or prayed in the morning

and went on with your day...

NOT!

i've found i have to actually chose it

every second of the day, over and over again

and actively seek peace each minute i truly want to have it!

blessings...

givin it a gooooooooo....

k, so this is not my typical, deep thought blog, but i wanted to try the whole "upload" thing with a pic (with the guidance of crystal, thank you very much missy)....so this is our halloween entourage.....old macdonald, his pig, chicken and cow, which btw, the pig and the cow took first prize at the county fair!!!

the grass is always greener.....

WHEN YOU CAN SEE IT!!!

i'm keepin it light today, lots to do...so i've had a slightly annoying cold this week that i caught from my adorable son, who probably got it from a pint-sized friend at church or school. the three days we just hybernated were absolutely gorgeous outside (although i have stated in bri's blog i'd prefer colder weather in november, but that's probably just me). we decide last night we're heading out today for some errands and fun time no matter how we feel. but then we get up and.....YUK, IT'S RAININ'.

then i check a little news...asher's father, his half-sister and her great mom live in denver. they've gotten over two feet of SNOW the last week or so. so the moral of the story is the same as it's always been people.....the grass is always greener on the other side until it's MASSIVELY blanketed in snow! blessings...